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Chandler

Chandler’s a good dog. He’s been through a lot in this life and will probably never fully recover.  Never fully trust anyone again.  I know the feeling.  Maybe that’s what we have in common.  Whatever it is, I just love the heck out of that dog.

And now he’s getting old, like me.  Blind in one eye.  Mostly blind, anyway.  Losing his hearing.  You can’t scold him.  Well, go ahead, but he won’t hear you, and if you’re on his left side, he won’t see you.  His favorite thing to do is sleep.  When he’s awake, his favorite thing is peeing on things.  That’s about the only bad habit he has.

He’s better than me that way.

Kite flying

Today, it turned out, was a good day for kite flying.  Elizabeth, 6, had been bugging me about flying her new kite since returning from the vet this morning.  We had brought all three pugs in to see Dr. Paula:  Daisy due to recurrent painful skin irritations, which magically disappeared by the time Dr. Paula saw her; and Joey and Chandler to get their nails trimmed.  She didn’t charge anything for Daisy because there ended up being nothing to do.  We were only charged for the nail trimming and some toothpaste for Joey because he has horrendous breath.  You can’t use human toothpaste on dogs.  They make chicken-flavored toothpaste that dogs can just swallow, which works out well because it’s hard to get a dog to rinse their mouth out, let alone gargle.  :)

There was some excitement on the way home, just a quarter mile from Dr. Paula’s.  We had the windows down because it was such a beautiful day, and in flies this bumble bee, bounces off the steering wheel and lands under me, somewhere in the crotch area.  I said, “Holy shit!” and pulled over as soon as possible while trying to keep my ass off the seat, avoiding getting stung, especially down there.  I managed to stop the car and get out, found the bee still buzzing sideways, apparently delirious, right where I’d been sitting, and I flicked him out of the car.  Of course, Elizabeth thought the whole thing was hilarious, and I had to apologize for my foul language.  But hey, when a bee lands in your crotch, your usual composure and decorum tend to suffer.

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Yesterday

Tara had a busy “day off.”  Her basic schedule consisted of:  1) taking our pug Chandler back to the vet (for the fifth or sixth time the past month) to check on his ulcerated cornea; 2) awaiting delivery of our “new” used clothes washer; and, 3) picking up Elizabeth from school.  Underlying all of this, she’s been sick with a cold … or whatever it is.

Mid-morning, I was at work typing an email to her about Sunny [see previous story] when Tara called to update me on Chandler.  The vet, Dr. Paula, said he keeps reinjuring his eyeball and, no matter how many ointments, drops or pills we’ve given him lately, he had “taken 15 steps back.”

Paula and a veterinary ophthalmologist are convinced he has been scratching at it, though we’ve never witnessed that.  Anyway, now he’s wearing a cone, which he hates.  Tara sent this picture.

While I had her on the phone, I told Tara my theory about what happened to Sunny.  She said, “Ah-uh.”  You would know the sound if you heard it, though spelling it correctly is difficult.  She called back around lunchtime saying that she and Daisy were walking the neighborhood looking for Sunny, with no luck.

Around 2:30 Tara called in a panic.  She doesn’t normally interrupt me at work so much, but yesterday was “special.”  She was saying I might need to come home early.  Now our pug Joey was missing.  What the hell was going on with our pets!?  After the washer was delivered, Joey had somehow escaped.  “He’s just gone!” she said with a cry in her voice.  I was already preparing to pack up and head home when she said, “Wait, here he is!”  To Joey, “Joey come here now!”  Back to me, “Well, he’s alive now, but I might kill him before you get home.”

Apparently yesterday was the day to go missing.  That night, Tara had closed the back door, not knowing Elizabeth was still in the back yard “looking for Sunny” even though she’d already been found.  When I didn’t see Elizabeth anywhere in the house, I asked — now my turn to panic — “Where’s Elizabeth?”

Ahhhh, the life of a parent of children and pets.  :)

Sunny came home!

I spent all day today wondering how I was going to tell our 5-year-old that our cat, Sunny, was no longer with us.  Literally.  After being awakened last night at 2:30a.m. by the sound of a VERY close coyote, and then not finding Sunny asleep somewhere in the house later that morning — and she’s ALWAYS sleeping it off by that time — I was just sure she had been caught and killed by coyotes.

Well, guess what?  Sunny just came home!

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Missing cat returns

by Jinx

Good news from best friends Julie and Bert in Las Vegas.  One of their cats, Tobie, went missing this past January.  He was an indoor/outdoor cat and one day just disappeared.  Needless to say, they were heartbroken and spent many hours/days posting fliers, contacting neighbors and shelters, etc.  Nothing.  But no one gave up hope.

Last night, Tobie came home!!!!!  Isn’t that amazing!?!  He just appeared in the back yard and let Julie pick him up and bring him into the house.  He settled right in like he had never been gone!!!  WOOOOHOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

We wish he could tell us the story of what has happened in the past 9 months, but I guess we’re left to speculate.

In these days of doom and gloom, I thought everyone might like this heartwarming story.

Vets and doctors

I took Chandler to the vet this morning to get his teeth cleaned.  I know, it sounds crazy, but it’s actually very important, just like with humans.  Anyway, because of road construction and morning rush-hour, it took forever to get there.  The vet eventually called Tara a few hours later and gave her an update:  the cleaning went well, Chandler’s fine, but while they had him knocked out they suctioned out his ears, making them cleaner than ever!  Suctioned out his ears?  You’re saying, “WTF?!”  I’m hoping it will make him hear again.  Poor old dog seems to be going deaf.  Probably because we haven’t kept up on his ear cleaning.  They have a tendency to get heavy wax build-up.

Teeth cleaning, ear cleaning!  What’s next, eyebrows?  Bikini wax?  Liposuction?  Hey, I’ve tried to comb out the hair he’s shedding lately on his hind quarters.  That and the occasional bath should be enough.  Then again, he is my best puppy.  The Chan Man.  The Big Dog.  The … actually, the nicknames go on forever.  I’ll spare you.

I had a doctor’s appointment myself.  A follow-up after the biopsy.  Apparently, I’m going to live, after all!


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Pets still looking for their families

After the Nashville flood, many pets are still homeless.  In our neighborhood someone put up a sign saying they’d found a lost dog.  I called to mention that one of their neighbors had lost two dogs, maybe this was one of those.  She called back and said, no, it wasn’t, but she was surprised no one had claimed it yet because it was a small and “very expensive” type of dog that you’d think someone (probably nearby) would dearly miss.

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A warning to pet owners with kids

I had to take our dog Chandler (my “best puppy”, the “big man”) to the vet Thursday when, while giving him a bath, I discovered what looked like a bloody gash on his throat.  I was horrified.  I literally gasped in shock (such a girl sometimes, I know) :) as drops of blood dripped into the bathwater.  It looked like someone had cut his throat.  How was that possible when he never leaves the house or yard except when I walk him every night?

He wasn’t bleeding profusely and the folds in his skin on his neck seemed to keep the wound from being exposed (which is why I never saw it before).   I pulled him out of the bath, dried him off (mostly), and called the vet.  This was around 1:30, and she had a 3:00 slot available.  I gathered up Chandler and Elizabeth and drove from Antioch to Franklin.  We really need to get a closer vet.  :)

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